According
to social psychologists, people are more inclined to remember and form
impressions from unusual, interesting, or unexpected information as compared to
information that is usual, ordinary, or expected. In order to learn our names,
my Biology professor came into lab and instructed the students in the lab
section to go around the room and say their names and an interesting fact about
themselves. From this experience, I can attest to the discrepancy between what is expected or ordinary and what is interesting or surprising . In any situation
where a group of people is supposed to give interesting facts about themselves,
some will have facts that are more intriguing, funny, or unusual than others.
In one particular case, a student said something that was actually relatively ordinary, but which no one else in the room would have expected, leading me to remember his fact well. His interesting fact was that he wears his retainer every night because he had had braces and did not want his teeth to shift. After reflecting upon what he said, I realized that this fact wasn't extraordinary in any way. While I am sure that there are many people who don’t wear their retainers every night, there are also many people who do (like me!). The reason why I remember this fact, even though it isn’t that unusual or interesting, is because it was unexpected and amusing for this person to use it as his interesting fact. Because I wasn’t anticipating a fact like that, I remembered it, and I’m sure my professor and lab instructor did as well, since they laughed upon hearing it, as did the rest of the students in the class.
Another one of the facts that I remember well was when one of my classmates told us that she is a licensed elephant handler in two different countries, a fact that I doubt other students at Haverford can claim. While I have had several classes with this person (including this social psychology class), I haven’t had much interaction with her outside of an academic setting. And while I have formed an impression of her, like every other person whom I’ve met, this new fact definitely added to this impression. While both of these facts are unusual in their own way, the one about the elephants definitely changes or furthers my impression of this person as compared to the fact about the retainer and want to know more about why and how she came to be an elephant handler. I feel as though learning more about this specific aspect of this person could give me much more information that I would be able to use in forming a more detailed impression of her. While I can get some information from knowing that the other student in my lab wears his retainer every night, I do not think it will add to my impression of him in an significant way (and knowing more information about why he chooses to wear his retainer every night does not seem as interesting as learning more about this elephant handling business!).
In one particular case, a student said something that was actually relatively ordinary, but which no one else in the room would have expected, leading me to remember his fact well. His interesting fact was that he wears his retainer every night because he had had braces and did not want his teeth to shift. After reflecting upon what he said, I realized that this fact wasn't extraordinary in any way. While I am sure that there are many people who don’t wear their retainers every night, there are also many people who do (like me!). The reason why I remember this fact, even though it isn’t that unusual or interesting, is because it was unexpected and amusing for this person to use it as his interesting fact. Because I wasn’t anticipating a fact like that, I remembered it, and I’m sure my professor and lab instructor did as well, since they laughed upon hearing it, as did the rest of the students in the class.
Another one of the facts that I remember well was when one of my classmates told us that she is a licensed elephant handler in two different countries, a fact that I doubt other students at Haverford can claim. While I have had several classes with this person (including this social psychology class), I haven’t had much interaction with her outside of an academic setting. And while I have formed an impression of her, like every other person whom I’ve met, this new fact definitely added to this impression. While both of these facts are unusual in their own way, the one about the elephants definitely changes or furthers my impression of this person as compared to the fact about the retainer and want to know more about why and how she came to be an elephant handler. I feel as though learning more about this specific aspect of this person could give me much more information that I would be able to use in forming a more detailed impression of her. While I can get some information from knowing that the other student in my lab wears his retainer every night, I do not think it will add to my impression of him in an significant way (and knowing more information about why he chooses to wear his retainer every night does not seem as interesting as learning more about this elephant handling business!).
For
most of the people in the room, though, it would take some effort to remember
exactly what their interesting facts were. Some facts I had already known, so
my impression of these individuals was not changed in any way. For others,
their new facts must not have been as unusual or interesting as others and thus
did not make any lasting impact or alteration of my impression of them. This
just goes to show that the more unusual or interesting we find a piece of
information about someone to be, the more this sticks in our mind. We tend to
expect the usual and normal things, thus we seem to notice them less or they fail
to have as great of an effect on us.
Another
factor that may have influenced my processing of these different facts would be
the reactions that they elicited in the room. Naturally, my professor and lab
instructor, as well as the rest of the students, reacted to the more
extraordinary facts that were thrown around to a greater degree. My biology
professor, whom I think is pretty witty and even sassy at times, tended to make
comments or inquire about the funnier or more intriguing facts. By extending
the conversation about some of these facts over others, there was a biased
processing of information. Even if some of the facts were not unusual or overly
interesting in and of themselves, the reactions that people had or the
conversation generated from these facts were what made an impression on me. All
of this just goes to show that information, whether it is about a particular
person or, really, about anything, makes a greater impression on us if it is
unusual, unexpected, or interesting. Overall, we will be more likely to retain
and recall information that catches our attention over things that are
typically expected or which fail to strike us in a certain way.